I am not loyal to my partner because I have sex with other boys. I do not really want to change because I want to satisfy my sexual needs.

Dear User, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your thoughts with me. I can understand that it takes courage to talk about such personal matters, and I want you to know that I am here to support you without any judgment. From a Buddhist perspective, the concept of loyalty is closely tied to the principle of Right Action. Right Action involves refraining from actions that are harmful to oneself or others. Engaging in sexual activity with multiple partners while in a committed relationship may cause emotional pain and harm to your partner. It's important to consider the impact of your actions on those around you and strive to act in a way that is compassionate and considerate. From a psychological perspective, it's important to explore your motivations for engaging in sexual activity with multiple partners. Are you seeking validation or a sense of power? Are you avoiding deeper emotional connections with your partner? Understanding the underlying reasons for your behavior can help you make positive changes. To address your concerns, I would suggest exploring your sexual needs and desires with your partner. Open and honest communication can help you both understand each other's needs and work together to find ways to satisfy them within the boundaries of your relationship. If you find that your sexual needs cannot be met within the confines of your current relationship, it may be time to reassess your values and priorities. Ultimately, the decision to change your behavior is up to you. However, I encourage you to consider the impact of your actions on others and strive to act with compassion and consideration.