I want to travel badly but my baby is just 4month old no one capable to babysit. And to wait for my baby to grow older, my partner and I decided to have another baby on dragon zodiac which will be start trying this year end after my one year recovery. By then I will need to go through another year and sacrifice my own needs and wants to travel

Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to balance your own desires with the responsibilities of being a parent. It's natural to want to travel and explore the world, but it can be challenging when you have a young child who needs your constant attention and care. It's also important to acknowledge the sacrifice you will be making by postponing your travel plans for another year as you prepare for another baby. From a Buddhist perspective, we can recognize that life is full of impermanence and change. While it may feel frustrating to delay your travel plans, it's important to remember that this is just a temporary situation. Your baby will grow quickly and there will be opportunities to travel in the future. Additionally, Buddhism teaches us to practice compassion and selflessness, and caring for your child is a powerful expression of these values. From a psychological perspective, it's important to prioritize self-care and find ways to meet your own needs even while caring for your child. This could mean finding time for activities that bring you joy, even if they are small, like taking a few minutes to read a book or go for a walk. It could also mean seeking support from others, like joining a parenting group or finding a trusted babysitter who can give you some time to yourself. As a coach, I would encourage you to explore your values and priorities when it comes to travel and parenting. While it may feel like you have to choose one or the other, it's possible to find a balance that works for you and your family. This might mean planning shorter trips closer to home, or finding ways to involve your child in your travel plans. It's also important to communicate openly with your partner about your desires and needs, and find ways to support each other as you navigate this new chapter in your lives.