Shall we stay away from people have poor control of their life and being divorced by their spouse?

Dear User, I can sense that you are going through a difficult time and are feeling uncertain about whether you should stay away from people who have poor control of their life and have been divorced by their spouse. It is natural to feel this way as you might be concerned about getting involved with people who might have a negative impact on your life. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to cultivate compassion and understanding towards all beings, including those who are struggling. However, it is also essential to maintain healthy boundaries and protect your own well-being. From a psychological perspective, it is understandable to feel cautious about getting involved with people who might have a negative impact on your life. It is important to consider your own needs and priorities and ensure that you are making choices that align with your values and goals. It might be helpful to reflect on what you are looking for in a relationship and what kind of people you want to surround yourself with. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest that you take some time to reflect on your own needs and priorities and what kind of people you want to have in your life. It might be helpful to set some boundaries around what you are willing to tolerate in a relationship and what behaviors are deal-breakers for you. Additionally, it might be helpful to focus on cultivating positive relationships with people who share your values and support your growth and well-being.