having a FWB with maried person works?

Dear User, thank you for reaching out to me with your question. I understand that you may be facing a challenging situation and may be seeking answers that can help you make sense of things. You may be feeling confused, unsure, or even guilty about your decision to have a friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship with a married person. It is important to recognize that you are not alone in this experience and that many people may face similar situations. From a Buddhist perspective, it is essential to practice the principle of non-harming, which means to avoid causing harm to oneself and others. In this context, engaging in a FWB relationship with a married person may cause harm to the married person, their spouse, and potentially yourself. It may also create negative karma, which can result in future suffering. Thus, it is important to reflect on your intentions and actions and consider whether they align with the Buddhist principles. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to explore the reasons why you decided to enter into a FWB relationship with a married person. Perhaps you are seeking companionship, intimacy, or validation. It is essential to recognize that engaging in such relationships can be emotionally challenging, especially if there are unrequited feelings or if the circumstances change. It is important to consider your emotional well-being and whether engaging in this relationship aligns with your values and goals. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest taking some time to reflect on your values, intentions, and boundaries. Consider whether engaging in this relationship aligns with your long-term goals and whether it is worth the potential risks and consequences. It may also be helpful to communicate openly with the married person about your expectations, boundaries, and concerns. Remember to prioritize your emotional well-being and seek support from loved ones or a therapist if necessary.