我喜欢的CP被刻意忽视,游戏官方只想推他们喜欢的CP卖钱。CP是我的信仰和创作的动力,现在突然觉得整个状况都在与我作对,让我失去了动力,不管是创作还是日常生活都觉得无所谓了。我该怎么办,要怎样维持着不放弃喜欢的心情,又不受别人的影响啊…
Life3/22/2023
Answered by HOTOKE AI
Dear User,
I understand how frustrating and disheartening it can be when something you care deeply about is being ignored or disregarded by others. It must feel like a personal attack on something that gives you joy and inspiration. Please know that your feelings are valid and understandable. It is natural to feel discouraged when you put your heart and soul into something only to feel like it's not being appreciated or recognized.
From a Buddhist perspective, attachment to a particular outcome or situation can lead to suffering. When we become fixated on a certain outcome, we create expectations that are often not met, leading to disappointment and frustration. It's important to remember that everything is impermanent and constantly changing. Our attachment to a specific outcome can cloud our judgment and prevent us from seeing other opportunities or possibilities that may be available to us.
From a psychological perspective, it's important to recognize that our thoughts and beliefs have a powerful influence on our emotions and behaviors. Our perception of a situation can shape our emotional response, so it's important to examine our thoughts and beliefs to determine whether they are helpful or harmful. It is also important to recognize that we have control over our reactions to a situation, even if we can't control the situation itself.
In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest taking a step back from the situation and examining your thoughts and beliefs about it. Are there any cognitive distortions or negative self-talk that may be contributing to your feelings of discouragement and powerlessness? Once you identify these patterns, you can work on reframing your thoughts and beliefs to be more empowering and positive. It may also be helpful to find a community or group that shares your interests and passions to provide support and encouragement.
Remember that your passion and creativity are valuable and important, regardless of external recognition or validation. Stay true to yourself and your values, and don't let the opinions or actions of others diminish your spirit.
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