will we discover that our fears were wrong once we have the courage to overcome them and give up all our security of a normal social life?

Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It sounds like you are experiencing fear and uncertainty about giving up the security of a "normal" social life. It is completely natural to feel this way, as humans are wired to seek safety and security. However, it is important to recognize that growth and change often require stepping out of our comfort zones and facing our fears. From a Buddhist perspective, the concept of impermanence reminds us that nothing in life is permanent, and that change is inevitable. Therefore, clinging to the security of a "normal" social life may ultimately lead to suffering, as everything in life is subject to change. Buddhism also emphasizes the importance of facing our fears and overcoming them, as this is a path towards liberation from suffering. From a psychological perspective, it is common to experience fear and anxiety when facing uncertainty and change. However, it is important to recognize that fear is often based on irrational thoughts and beliefs. By challenging these thoughts and beliefs through cognitive-behavioral techniques, such as reframing and exposure therapy, we can begin to overcome our fears and gain confidence in our ability to handle new situations. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest taking small steps towards stepping out of your comfort zone and facing your fears. This could involve trying new social activities or attending events that make you slightly uncomfortable. It may also be helpful to work with a therapist or coach who can provide support and guidance as you navigate this process. Remember, growth and change require courage and vulnerability, but the rewards can be great.