I told my crush about my self-doubt of choosing writing as a career. she said "the majority of us don't know what we are doing in life, they are just doing it because others are doing it...and it's fine, we're just all gonna die" I like her dark sense of humour

Dear User, It sounds like you had a vulnerable moment with your crush, sharing your self-doubt about choosing writing as a career. It can be scary to share our fears and insecurities with others, especially someone we have feelings for. It's understandable that you feel comforted by your crush's dark sense of humor, but it's important to remember that humor can sometimes be a defense mechanism to avoid facing difficult emotions. It's also important to note that what works for someone else may not work for you. While it may be true that many people don't know what they're doing in life, it's important to find a path that feels authentic and fulfilling to you. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to acknowledge that self-doubt is a common experience and that suffering comes from attachment to our thoughts and beliefs. We can learn to observe our thoughts without judgment and recognize that they are impermanent and not a reflection of our true selves. From a psychological perspective, it can be helpful to explore the root of our self-doubt and work on building self-compassion and self-confidence. In terms of coaching advice, I would encourage you to continue exploring your passion for writing and reflecting on why it is important to you. It can be helpful to set small, achievable goals and celebrate your successes along the way. I would also recommend finding a supportive community of writers or mentors who can offer guidance and encouragement. Remember that it's okay to make mistakes and take risks, and that the journey towards finding your path is just as important as the destination.