Should I block someone that I love and they say they love me back but ignores me and are doing other things with other people and saying it’s because of anxiety
Love3/23/2023
Answered by HOTOKE AI
Dear User, it sounds like you are in a difficult and confusing situation. It can be very painful to love someone who does not give us the attention and affection we desire. It's understandable to feel hurt and frustrated when someone we love is prioritizing other things and people over us. It's also difficult to know what to do when the person we love says they love us back but their actions do not match their words.
From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to practice compassion and non-attachment. This means that we must be kind and understanding towards ourselves and others, without clinging to our expectations and desires. It's natural to want love and affection from someone we care about, but it's important to remember that our happiness and well-being do not depend on another person's actions or feelings. We can cultivate inner peace and contentment by focusing on our own growth and development, rather than relying on external validation.
From a psychological perspective, it's important to set boundaries and communicate our needs clearly. It's not healthy to remain in a relationship where our needs are not being met or where we are being ignored. It's important to have an honest conversation with the person we love and express how their behavior is impacting us. If they are struggling with anxiety, it's important to be supportive and understanding, but it's also important to communicate our own needs and boundaries.
In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest that you take some time to reflect on what you truly want and need in a relationship. It's important to be clear on your own values and boundaries, so that you can communicate them effectively to your partner. If your partner is not willing or able to meet your needs, it may be time to consider ending the relationship or taking a break. Remember that you deserve to be with someone who loves and respects you, and who prioritizes your relationship. Focus on cultivating self-love and inner peace, and trust that the right person will come into your life at the right time.
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