i have a boyfriend, but i love another married man.

Dear User, I can understand how difficult and confusing this situation must feel for you. It's not uncommon to have feelings for more than one person, but it can be challenging to navigate these emotions in a way that feels aligned with our values and relationships. It takes a lot of courage to acknowledge and explore these complex feelings, and I want you to know that you're not alone. From a Buddhist perspective, we believe that all actions have consequences, and our thoughts and emotions can impact our karma. It's important to be mindful of our intentions and actions, especially when they involve others. We also recognize the importance of compassion and non-judgment towards ourselves and others. It's okay to feel these emotions, but we must take responsibility for how we act on them. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to explore why you're drawn to this married man. Are you seeking something that you feel is missing in your current relationship? What are your values and priorities in a relationship? It's essential to understand your motivations and desires fully. It may also be helpful to speak with a therapist or coach to navigate these emotions and develop a plan of action. In terms of coaching advice, I would encourage you to reflect on your values and priorities in a relationship. Are your current actions aligning with those values? If not, what changes can you make to bring your actions in line with your values? It may also be helpful to have an honest conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings and explore where the relationship is going. It's challenging to move forward in a relationship while still holding on to feelings for someone else. Remember to be gentle and compassionate with yourself throughout this process.