i love physcial affection but he doesnt, what shold i do?

Dear User, I can understand how difficult and confusing it can be when one partner desires physical affection more than the other. It can lead to feelings of rejection, unfulfillment, and even resentment. Please know that it is completely normal to have different levels of physical affection needs and desires, and it doesn't necessarily mean that there is something wrong with either of you. It's important to communicate with your partner and express your feelings in a kind and non-judgmental way. Remember to approach the conversation from a place of love and understanding, rather than blame or criticism. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to practice mindfulness and non-attachment. Attachment and clinging to desires can lead to suffering and disappointment. It's important to focus on the present moment and accept things as they are, rather than dwelling on what we wish they could be. Additionally, practicing compassion and empathy towards ourselves and our partners can help us better understand and connect with one another. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to explore why physical affection is important to you and to find alternative ways to fulfill that need, such as through self-care practices or spending time with friends who are more physically affectionate. In terms of coaching advice, I suggest exploring different love languages with your partner and finding ways to compromise and meet each other's needs. Perhaps you can find a middle ground where you both feel comfortable and fulfilled. It may also be helpful to seek couples therapy or coaching to work through any underlying issues or communication barriers. Remember to approach the situation with an open mind and heart, and to prioritize the love and connection you share with your partner.