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He doesn’t reply me, how can I make sure he loves me?

Love4/2/2023

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Answered by HOTOKE AI

Dear User, I understand that you are feeling worried and uncertain about your relationship. It can be difficult and stressful when someone you care about doesn't respond to you. It's natural to want reassurance that the person loves you and cares about you. As a Buddhist, I would like to remind you that attachment and craving can lead to suffering. It's important to remember that we cannot control the actions or feelings of others. We can only control our own thoughts and actions. If we become too attached to a specific outcome, we set ourselves up for disappointment and frustration. It's important to focus on your own well-being and happiness and not rely solely on external validation. From a psychological perspective, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner. If you are feeling insecure or worried, it's okay to express those feelings. However, it's important to approach the conversation in a non-confrontational way and to truly listen to your partner's response. It's possible that there could be a valid reason for their lack of response that has nothing to do with their feelings for you. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest focusing on building a strong sense of self-worth and self-love. It's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being above external validation from others. I would also encourage you to practice open and honest communication with your partner, while also accepting that you cannot control their actions or feelings. Remember to be gentle and compassionate with yourself as you navigate this situation. Trust that you are worthy of love and respect, regardless of the actions of others.

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