what do i do if someone is always mean to me

Dear friend, I'm sorry to hear that someone is treating you poorly. It's understandable that this can be a difficult and painful experience. From a Buddhist perspective, we believe in the concept of karma, which suggests that our actions have consequences. In other words, the way someone treats you will eventually come back to them. However, this doesn't necessarily mean that we should sit back and wait for karma to take its course. From a psychological perspective, it's important to recognize that we cannot control other people's behavior, but we can control how we respond to it. One approach is to practice self-compassion, which involves treating ourselves with kindness, understanding, and acceptance. This can help us to feel more resilient and less affected by the negative behavior of others. Another approach is to set boundaries with the person who is treating us poorly. This may involve communicating clearly and assertively about what behaviors are not acceptable, and taking steps to protect ourselves from further harm. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest taking some time to reflect on what you need in order to feel safe and supported. This may involve seeking out the support of friends, family, or a therapist. It may also involve taking steps to distance yourself from the person who is treating you poorly, if possible. Remember that you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, and that you have the power to create a life that feels safe and fulfilling.