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I don't know the one I like whether like me back or not. The only certain thing is we already engaged a friendship that above regular. What should I do next?

Love4/1/2023

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Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It can be difficult not knowing whether someone you like feels the same way, and it's understandable that you may feel uncertain about what to do next. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to recognize that attachment and craving can cause suffering. It's natural to feel drawn to someone, but when we attach ourselves too strongly to a particular outcome, it can lead to disappointment and pain. From a psychological perspective, it's important to recognize that it's normal to feel uncertain in situations like these, and that it's okay to take time to sort out your feelings before taking action. One thing you can do is to focus on yourself and your own well-being. Take some time to reflect on what you want and need in a relationship, and whether this person aligns with those values. It's also important to communicate openly and honestly with the other person about your feelings. While it can be scary to put yourself out there, it's better to know where you stand rather than to be left wondering. However, it's important to approach the conversation with an open mind and without expectations for a particular outcome. Remember, you are worthy of love and respect regardless of how the other person feels. In terms of coaching advice, I would recommend taking some time to practice mindfulness and self-reflection. This can help you get in touch with your own needs and desires, and give you the courage to communicate them to others. It's also important to remember that rejection is not a reflection of your worth as a person, and that there are many other people out there who may be a better fit for you. Keep an open mind and an open heart, and trust that the universe will guide you towards the right path.

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