how am I going to increase my chemistry with other people and they like me

Dear User, I understand that building chemistry with other people and being liked by them can be challenging. It's natural to want to be accepted and appreciated by others. It's important to remember that you are not alone in feeling this way, and many people struggle with the same issue. From a Buddhist perspective, it is essential to cultivate compassion and loving-kindness towards oneself and others. When you generate these qualities, you create a positive energy that attracts people towards you. It's also important to be present in the moment and focus on what is happening around you, rather than being self-conscious. When you are fully present, you can connect with others more genuinely. From a psychological perspective, building chemistry with others requires developing social skills. These skills can be learned and practiced, such as active listening, empathy, and effective communication. It's also vital to be authentic and genuine, as people can tell when someone is not being true to themselves. Developing a positive self-concept and self-esteem can also help you feel more confident and comfortable in social situations. My coaching advice to you would be to start by identifying your strengths and qualities that you bring to your relationships. Focus on these positive qualities and use them to build connections with others. Practice active listening and empathy by asking questions and showing interest in what others have to say. Also, try to be more engaged in social situations and be open to meeting new people. Remember that building relationships takes time and effort, so be patient and persistent in your efforts.