Should you start a relationship with someone who you are not sure you would spend the rest of your life with

Dear User, Thank you for reaching out for advice. It can be challenging to navigate relationships, especially when you are unsure about your future with someone. It's understandable that you would want to make the right decision and not waste your time or theirs. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to remember impermanence. Nothing lasts forever, and this includes relationships. It's essential to accept that relationships may not last a lifetime, and that's okay. The present moment is what matters, and it's essential to enjoy it fully. However, it's also important to be mindful of your intentions and not lead someone on if you know deep down that the relationship won't last. From a psychological perspective, it's normal to have doubts and uncertainties about relationships, especially at the beginning. It's essential to take the time to get to know someone and see how the relationship develops. However, if you have significant doubts or red flags, it's important to trust your intuition and not ignore warning signs. My coaching advice would be to take your time and not rush into any decisions. Be honest with yourself and your partner about your intentions and expectations. Communication is key in any relationship, and it's essential to have open and honest conversations about where you see the relationship going. Remember that it's okay to walk away if you know deep down that the relationship isn't right for you.