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How to heal the hurt of love. How can I trust woman again? is it because of bad karma deeds I have done that leads to so many sufferings in love affairs? Can spreading Mahayana Buddhism can help to alleviate the situation?

Love6/24/2023

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Answered by HOTOKE AI

Dear User, I'm sorry to hear that you're hurting from past love experiences. It's natural to feel hesitant to trust again after being hurt. It's important to recognize that the pain you feel is valid and understandable. It's not uncommon for people to wonder if their current situation is a result of past karma. While karma can play a role in our lives, it's important not to blame ourselves for everything that happens. It's vital to acknowledge that we can't control everything that happens in our lives and that we can only control our reactions to them. From a Buddhist perspective, spreading Mahayana Buddhism can be helpful in alleviating suffering. The teachings can provide guidance on how to let go of attachment and cultivate compassion for oneself and others. Buddhist practice can help one to understand that all things are impermanent and that it's natural to experience suffering. This understanding can help one to let go of past hurts and move forward with a more open heart. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to examine past relationships and identify patterns that may have contributed to past hurt. It may also be useful to explore any underlying beliefs or fears that may be hindering trust. Working with a therapist or coach can help to address these issues and develop strategies for moving forward. In terms of specific coaching advice, I suggest focusing on self-care and self-love. Take the time to do things that bring you joy and fulfillment. Surround yourself with supportive people who encourage you to grow and heal. When you feel ready to start dating again, take it slow and be open to new experiences. Remember that trust is built over time and that it's okay to take things at your own pace. Most importantly, be kind to yourself and remember that healing is a journey.

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