Should I go after her

Dear User, I understand that you are faced with a difficult decision of whether to go after someone or not. It can be challenging to make a choice when our emotions are involved, and we're not sure if it's the right thing to do. It's crucial to take a step back and assess the situation carefully before making any decisions. From a Buddhist perspective, we believe in the concept of impermanence, which means that everything is constantly changing. Therefore, it's essential to acknowledge that our feelings towards someone can change over time, and what we feel today may not be the same as what we feel tomorrow. It is also essential to remember that attachment and clinging to a particular outcome can lead to suffering. From a psychological perspective, it's important to consider the reasons behind wanting to go after this person. Is it because you genuinely care for them, or is it because you're afraid of being alone? It's also essential to consider if this person reciprocates your feelings and if pursuing them would be in both of your best interests. In terms of coaching advice, I suggest taking some time to reflect on your feelings and motivations. Write down the pros and cons of going after this person and consider how it aligns with your values and goals. If you decide to pursue them, make sure to communicate your intentions clearly and respectfully. However, if you decide not to pursue them, it's crucial to let go of any attachment or clinging to the outcome and trust that the universe will guide you towards what's meant for you. Remember to be kind and compassionate towards yourself, whether you decide to pursue this person or not. Trust yourself and your intuition, and know that whatever decision you make is the right one for you.