Not gonna specifically say where I live, but it is a few blocks west from the botanical garden near the station (near Keio Plaza Hotel specifically). When I first moved into the apartment in 2019, and bald middle aged looking Japanese guy yelled 帰ってくれ (go back to your country) aggressively from his car to me. I ignored it. Second incident was actually a few months later. I was walking passed a Lawson and he was walking to his car after exiting the lawson. When he saw me he started shouting something at me but I couldnt really comprehend it. I ignored and moved on. Third incident, I cycled through a red pedestrian light (I'm wrong I know) and apparently it was him in his car stopped at the traffic light. He horned at me twice and I saw him moving his arms around in his car with an angry look on his face. Fourth incident, he was walking passed my apartment and I cycled by him. He didnt say anything but he did stare at me. I made sure he didnt see me go into the compound of my apartment. Fifth incident was today. I cycle passed the same Lawson as the second incident and again I saw him walk out of the lawson. When he saw me he started shouting something but again I can't comprehend. I ignored and cycled away. Does anyone know who this guy is or has any similar experience with him? The aggression from him Im getting is unreasonable.

I'm sorry to hear that you have been experiencing such aggression from this person near your apartment. It must be very distressing and unsettling to have these encounters. It is understandable that you would feel frustrated and confused about why this person is behaving this way towards you. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to approach this situation with compassion and understanding, both for yourself and for the person who is acting aggressively. It is possible that this person may be experiencing their own suffering or difficulties, which could be causing them to act out in this manner. It is not a reflection of your worth or value as a person. From a psychological perspective, it is important to prioritize your own well-being and safety in these situations. It may be helpful to consider taking some practical steps to address the issue. Firstly, it could be beneficial to document each incident, including the date, time, and any relevant details, in case you need to report it to the authorities or seek legal assistance in the future. Additionally, it may be worth considering talking to your neighbors or the building management about the situation, as they may have encountered similar experiences or be able to offer guidance. Finally, practicing self-care and engaging in stress-reducing activities, such as meditation, exercise, or spending time in nature, can help you manage any anxiety or distress that these incidents may be causing. Remember, you have the power to choose how to respond to these situations. While it may be challenging, try to cultivate a mindset of compassion and non-reactivity. Responding with anger or aggression will only perpetuate the cycle of negativity. Instead, focus on maintaining your own inner peace and well-being. Surround yourself with supportive friends and loved ones who can provide emotional support during this time. If the situation escalates or becomes increasingly unsafe, do not hesitate to seek professional help or advice.