why he does whatever I asked him to do

Dear User, I understand that you are feeling confused and frustrated because someone is not doing what you have asked them to do. It can be disheartening when our expectations are not met, especially when we believe that others should comply with our requests. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to recognize that we cannot control the actions of others. Each person has their own free will and agency, and they may choose to act in ways that are different from what we desire. From a psychological perspective, it could be helpful to explore the reasons behind this person's behavior. There could be various factors influencing their actions, such as their own priorities, beliefs, or limitations. It might be beneficial to have an open and honest conversation with them to gain a deeper understanding of their perspective. Active listening and empathy can go a long way in building better communication and resolving conflicts. Coaching advice: Instead of focusing on changing the other person's behavior, shift your attention towards your own response. Reflect on your expectations and consider whether they are reasonable and realistic. Explore alternative ways to address the situation or fulfill your needs. It may also be helpful to practice acceptance and understanding, recognizing that we cannot control others but can choose how we respond. Cultivating patience and compassion can create a more harmonious environment and improve relationships.