觉得好朋友不会自动还钱，是我太小气还是什么？

It sounds like you are feeling frustrated and unsure about how to handle a situation with a good friend who doesn't seem to be repaying you. It's understandable to feel this way - it can be difficult to navigate financial boundaries with friends. From both a Buddhist and psychological perspective, it's important to approach this situation with empathy and understanding. Firstly, from a Buddhist perspective, it's important to cultivate compassion and non-attachment towards money. While it's understandable to want to be repaid, it's also important to recognize that money is ultimately impermanent and not a true source of happiness. It's also important to recognize the interconnectedness of all beings and the importance of generosity. From a psychological perspective, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your friend about your expectations and boundaries. It's possible that your friend may not even realize that they haven't repaid you or may be experiencing their own financial struggles. It's important to approach the conversation with an open mind and without judgment. In terms of coaching advice, it may be helpful to have a conversation with your friend about your expectations and boundaries around borrowing and repaying money. It's important to approach the conversation with kindness and compassion, and to listen to your friend's perspective as well. It may also be helpful to establish clear guidelines or a repayment plan to avoid any confusion or misunderstandings in the future.