有人杀我全家，他收养了我，但我不知道。后来我知道了这件事。我要怎么面对他

First of all, I want to extend my deepest sympathies to you for the tragic loss of your family. It is understandable that discovering the individual who killed your loved ones has taken you on an emotional rollercoaster, and facing this person can be a daunting task. From a Buddhist perspective, it is essential to approach this situation with compassion and understanding. As difficult as it may be, try to let go of any anger or resentment towards this person, as it will only cause suffering for yourself. Instead, focus on cultivating loving-kindness and empathy towards all beings, including the person who caused you so much pain. From a psychological perspective, it is essential to prioritize your own mental health and well-being. Take time to process your emotions and seek support from loved ones or a mental health professional. It is essential to set boundaries and communicate your needs clearly to the person who adopted you, especially if you are not comfortable being around them or discussing the situation. Remember that you have the right to prioritize your own healing and recovery, and it is okay to take the time and space you need to do so. In terms of coaching advice, I would recommend finding a trusted therapist or counselor who can support you in processing your emotions, managing trauma symptoms, and setting boundaries with the person who adopted you. It may also be helpful to practice mindfulness and meditation to cultivate self-compassion and inner peace during this challenging time. Remember that healing is a journey, and it is okay to take it one step at a time.