My friend owes me money , he said he will return to me . However, he didn’t . And this happen over 30 times . What should I do ?

Dear friend, I understand how frustrating it can be when someone owes you money and doesn't follow through on their promise to repay you. It can feel like a betrayal of trust and make you question the nature of your relationship with that person. It's important to acknowledge these feelings and allow yourself to experience them fully without judgment. From a Buddhist perspective, it's helpful to cultivate compassion and understanding towards your friend. Perhaps there is a reason why he hasn't been able to repay you, and he may be struggling with his own financial or personal issues. It's important to approach the situation with a non-judgmental and compassionate mindset, while also setting clear boundaries and expectations for repayment. From a psychological perspective, it's important to communicate effectively with your friend about the issue. Instead of making assumptions or accusations, have an open and honest conversation about your concerns and the impact this has had on your relationship. It's also important to consider the possibility of forgiving your friend, even if he is unable to repay you, in order to release any negative emotions and move forward in a positive direction. In terms of coaching advice, I would recommend having a clear and direct conversation with your friend about the issue. Set a specific date for repayment and follow up with him to ensure that he follows through on his commitment. If he is unable to repay you, consider alternative options such as setting up a payment plan or finding a way to forgive the debt in order to move forward with the relationship. Remember to maintain a compassionate and non-judgmental attitude towards your friend, while also setting clear boundaries and expectations for the future.