I want to play sm with my lovers

First of all, it takes a lot of courage to share your desires and fantasies with others, so I want to acknowledge your bravery in expressing your interest in playing SM with your lovers. It's important to remember that everyone has different boundaries and comfort levels, so it's important to have open and honest communication with your partners to ensure that everyone is on the same page and feels safe and respected. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to reflect on the intention behind your desire to play SM. Are you seeking pleasure and gratification at the expense of others, or are you seeking a deeper connection and understanding of your own desires and boundaries? It's important to approach any activity with mindfulness and compassion towards yourself and others, and to ensure that everyone involved is consenting and comfortable. From a psychological perspective, exploring your sexuality can be a healthy and empowering way to connect with your body and your desires. However, it's important to ensure that you are engaging in activities that align with your values and beliefs, and that you are not compromising your safety or well-being. It can also be helpful to seek out resources or support from a therapist or coach who specializes in sexuality and intimacy. In terms of coaching advice, I would encourage you to have open and honest communication with your partners about your desires and boundaries. It can be helpful to establish a safe word or signal that allows you to communicate your discomfort or need to stop at any time. It's also important to prioritize consent and mutual respect in all aspects of your relationship, and to be willing to have ongoing conversations and check-ins to ensure that everyone feels heard and validated.