Hi Buddha, if a guy kept chasing me, and caused much problem for others, what should I say to calm him down and not hurt his feelings?

Hello! I can understand why you might be feeling overwhelmed and unsure of how to handle this situation. It can be challenging to deal with someone who is persistent and causing problems for others. From a Buddhist perspective, it is essential to approach this situation with compassion and understanding. Recognize that this person's behavior may be coming from a place of pain or suffering, and they may not know how to express their feelings in a healthy way. Try to see them as a fellow human being who is struggling, and approach the situation with kindness and patience. From a psychological perspective, it is also essential to set clear boundaries and communicate effectively with this person. Let them know that their behavior is causing problems for others and that you would appreciate it if they could back off a bit. Be firm but kind in your communication, and try to avoid blaming or shaming them. Remember that you cannot control their behavior, but you can control your response to it. As for specific coaching advice, I would suggest having a conversation with this person and expressing your concerns in a calm and non-judgmental way. Let them know that you understand that they may have feelings for you, but that their behavior is causing problems for others. Encourage them to seek help if they are struggling with their emotions or behavior. Set clear boundaries and let them know what you are and are not comfortable with. If necessary, involve a third party, such as a mediator or therapist, to help facilitate the conversation.