I met this girl just had a bad break up, we started seeing each other for weeks now. I started catching feelings while I know she hasn’t recovered She’s also seeing other people meanwhile still prioritise me as her first option. Am I a rebound? Is she using me to heal? Should I stick around or work on myself? I feel heart broken

Dear friend, I can imagine that you must be feeling quite confused and hurt at the moment. It's never easy to navigate the complexities of relationships, especially when we are unsure of where we stand with our partner. It sounds like you have been seeing this girl for a few weeks now, and you have started developing feelings for her. However, you are also aware that she is still healing from a recent break-up, and that she is seeing other people while prioritizing you. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to remember that attachment and desire often lead to suffering. It's natural to have feelings for someone, and it's okay to express those feelings, but it's also important to practice non-attachment and non-judgment. This means accepting the present moment as it is, without trying to control or manipulate it. It also means being compassionate towards yourself and others, and recognizing that everyone is on their own journey of healing and growth. From a psychological perspective, it's important to set healthy boundaries and communicate your needs and expectations clearly with your partner. It's okay to ask for what you want and need in a relationship, but it's also important to respect your partner's boundaries and needs. It's also important to take care of your own emotional well-being and not rely solely on your partner for validation or happiness. In terms of coaching advice, I would recommend focusing on your own personal growth and self-care. This means taking time to reflect on your own values, goals, and priorities, and investing in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. It also means being open and honest with yourself and your partner about your feelings and intentions, while also respecting each other's boundaries and needs. Finally, trust your intuition and be mindful of any red flags or warning signs in the relationship.