not get the kind

Hello, thank you for reaching out. It sounds like you may be struggling with not receiving the type of kindness you desire from others. I want you to know that you are not alone in feeling this way. It is natural to want to feel loved and appreciated by those around us, and it can be difficult when we don't receive the type of kindness we are looking for. It is important to understand that everyone expresses kindness differently, and what may be kind to one person may not be the same for another. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to cultivate self-compassion and love. We cannot control the actions of others, but we can control how we react to them. By practicing self-love and compassion, we can learn to be kind to ourselves and not rely solely on the kindness of others. It is also important to practice non-attachment and not hold onto expectations of how others should treat us. This does not mean we should allow others to mistreat us, but rather approach situations with an open mind and heart. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to explore the root of why you feel the need for a certain type of kindness from others. Is it a result of past experiences? Are there underlying beliefs or values that are driving this desire? By understanding the root cause, you can work towards making changes and finding fulfillment in other areas of your life. As for coaching advice, I would suggest practicing self-love and compassion through daily affirmations and self-care activities. It may also be helpful to communicate your needs to those around you and express gratitude for any kindness you do receive. Remember to approach situations with an open mind and heart, and focus on cultivating kindness within yourself.