人善被人欺

It sounds like you are feeling frustrated and possibly hurt. The phrase "人善被人欺" is often translated as "nice guys finish last," which can be a difficult experience to go through. It can be hard to feel like you're always being taken advantage of or that people don't appreciate your kindness. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to remember that everyone is on their own journey and that we can't control how others treat us. However, we can control our own reactions and the way we treat others. It's important to continue to practice compassion and kindness, even when it feels like it's not being reciprocated. From a psychological perspective, it's important to set boundaries and communicate your needs. It's okay to say no or to express your feelings when someone treats you unfairly. It's also important to surround yourself with people who appreciate and value your kindness. Sometimes, we attract people who take advantage of us because we don't value ourselves enough. It's important to work on building self-esteem and self-worth. As for coaching advice, I would suggest taking some time to reflect on your past experiences and identify patterns of behavior or situations that have led to feeling taken advantage of. From there, you can work on setting boundaries and communicating your needs in those situations. It's also important to focus on building relationships with people who appreciate and value your kindness. Lastly, remember to practice self-compassion and self-care. It's okay to take a step back and prioritize your own needs.