Enjoy reading BL, what should I do?
Love3/18/2023
Answered by HOTOKE AI
Dear User, it sounds like you are experiencing some confusion and uncertainty about what to do with your BL (Boys' Love) interest. It's completely normal to feel this way when exploring something new, especially when it's not widely accepted in society. It's important to remember that you are not alone and there are many people who share your interest. It's also important to understand that everyone has the right to love who they love, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to practice compassion and non-judgment towards yourself and others. Remember that you are worthy of love and acceptance just as you are.
From a psychological perspective, it's important to take time to explore your feelings and understand what specifically draws you to BL. Is it the storyline, the characters, or the romantic relationships? Once you have a better understanding of what specifically you enjoy, you can then decide how you want to incorporate it into your life. It's also important to have a support system of friends or loved ones who accept and support you for who you are.
In terms of coaching advice, it's important to take things at your own pace and not feel pressured to conform to societal norms. If you feel comfortable, you can try joining online communities or attending events that celebrate BL culture. Remember to always prioritize your own well-being and safety, and to seek professional help if needed. With time and self-exploration, you can find a way to enjoy BL in a way that brings you joy and fulfillment.
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