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It’s frustrated to be the one who’s being let down always. Those of who I like, never like me back. I’m at the age of about the time can’t give birth properly. This made me so sad and scare that I might not be able to reproduce in my life.

Love7/11/2023

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I can understand how frustrating and disheartening it must be to constantly feel let down by those you care about. It can be particularly painful when the people you have feelings for do not reciprocate those feelings. This can lead to feelings of sadness, fear, and a sense of inadequacy, especially when considering the possibility of not being able to have children. It's important to acknowledge and validate these emotions, as they are natural and valid responses to the situation you are facing. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to recognize that attachment and desire can often lead to suffering. When we become attached to specific outcomes or cling to certain expectations, we set ourselves up for disappointment and dissatisfaction. Buddhism teaches us the value of cultivating detachment and contentment, focusing on the present moment rather than being overly preoccupied with future desires or past regrets. From a psychological perspective, it is essential to engage in self-reflection and explore any underlying patterns or beliefs that may be contributing to this recurring experience of being let down. It may be helpful to examine your own self-worth and how it is influenced by external validation and the opinions of others. Developing a stronger sense of self-esteem and self-love can help to reduce the impact of rejection and disappointment. In terms of coaching advice, I would encourage you to prioritize self-care and self-compassion. Take time to nurture and love yourself, focusing on activities and hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment. Surround yourself with supportive and loving individuals who appreciate and value you for who you are. Additionally, consider seeking professional support, such as therapy or counseling, to help navigate through these emotions and develop strategies for building resilience and finding happiness within yourself.