my ex flirted with me a few weeks ago but starts to show less interest in talking to me now. I raised my concern that the conversation has become one-sided. he said he is not big in texting. i then told him that i am feeling confused and lost and asked if there is anything i should know or whether i did something wrong. did i appear to be pushy?

Dear User, I understand that you are feeling confused and lost as your ex-partner flirted with you a few weeks ago but now seems to show less interest in talking to you. It's natural to feel unsure of where you stand and to want to have clarity in the situation. It can be challenging to navigate such circumstances, and I'm here to offer you some guidance from both Buddhist and psychological perspectives. From a Buddhist perspective, it's essential to recognize that everything is impermanent, and change is inevitable. Relationships come and go, and it's crucial to accept that sometimes we cannot control the outcome. It's essential to focus on the present moment and find peace in it. It's also essential to practice self-compassion and let go of self-blame or self-criticism. You are not pushy for expressing how you feel and seeking clarity. From a psychological perspective, it's essential to communicate effectively and assertively in relationships. Expressing your needs and concerns is healthy, and it's essential to have open and honest conversations. It's also important to recognize that people have different communication styles, and some may not be as responsive to text messages. However, if you feel that the conversation has become one-sided, it's important to communicate this to your ex-partner and find a way to have more balanced communication. In terms of coaching advice, I suggest focusing on the present moment and practicing self-care to find inner peace. It's also important to communicate assertively and express your needs and concerns while being understanding of your ex-partner's communication style. It's okay to ask for clarity and to seek closure if necessary. Remember to be kind to yourself throughout the process.