Why did my mum help my dad's verbal violence?

Dear User, I can only imagine how difficult and painful it must be for you to witness your father's verbal violence and feel unsupported by your mother. It's natural to feel confused and frustrated when someone we love seems to enable or tolerate abusive behavior. From a Buddhist perspective, every person has their own unique karma, which is the result of their past actions, thoughts, and intentions. While we cannot fully control the actions of others, we can work on our own karma by cultivating positive thoughts, intentions, and actions. From a psychological perspective, it's possible that your mother may be experiencing her own set of challenges that prevent her from standing up to your father's verbal violence. She may be afraid of the consequences, feeling trapped or powerless, or have beliefs that enable abusive behavior. It's important to remember that abusive behavior is never acceptable or justified, and that it's not your responsibility to fix your parents' relationship or behavior. However, you can take steps to protect yourself and seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals. As a coach, I would suggest that you focus on what you can control, which is your own actions and emotional well-being. It's important to prioritize your own safety and boundaries by setting clear limits on what kind of behavior you will tolerate, and seeking help if necessary. You may also benefit from developing coping strategies to deal with the stress and anxiety that comes from living with verbal violence. It may be helpful to reach out to a professional counselor or therapist who can offer support and guidance. Remember that you are not alone, and that there are resources available to help you through this difficult time.