my best friend always hurts my feelings

Dear friend, I'm sorry to hear that your best friend has been hurting your feelings. It's understandable that this is causing you pain and discomfort. From a Buddhist perspective, we understand that all beings experience suffering and desire happiness. Your friend may be causing you harm unintentionally or may be struggling with their own suffering, causing them to lash out. It's important to approach the situation with compassion and understanding, both for your friend and for yourself. From a psychological perspective, it's important to consider setting boundaries with your friend. It's not healthy for any relationship to be one-sided, where one person is constantly causing emotional pain. You have the right to communicate your feelings and needs to your friend, and to expect them to be respected. It's important to remember that you deserve to be treated with kindness and respect, and to surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest having an honest and compassionate conversation with your friend about how their actions have been affecting you. Practice active listening and try to understand their perspective as well. Set clear boundaries and communicate your needs, but also be open to compromise and finding a solution that works for both of you. If the behavior continues despite your efforts, it may be necessary to reevaluate the friendship and prioritize your own well-being.