Why my friend is better than me?

Dear friend, I can understand how it might feel difficult to see someone close to you who seems to be doing better than you. It can be discouraging and might make you feel like you are not doing enough or not good enough. However, it's important to remember that comparing yourself to others is a common trap we fall into, and it's not a fair or accurate way to evaluate ourselves. Everyone has their own unique journey and experiences, and it's not healthy to measure ourselves against others. From a Buddhist perspective, we are taught to practice non-attachment and non-judgment. This means that we should strive to let go of any attachment to our egos and let go of judgment towards ourselves and others. We are all on our own path, and we should focus on cultivating our own growth and happiness rather than comparing ourselves to others. In psychology, comparing ourselves to others can also lead to feelings of inadequacy, low self-esteem, and depression. It's important to remember that we are all different, and we have our own strengths and weaknesses. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest focusing on your own journey and setting goals for yourself that align with your values and passions. It's important to remember that success is subjective, and we should strive to achieve what brings us joy and fulfillment rather than what society or others dictate as success. Celebrate your own achievements and progress, no matter how small they may seem. Surround yourself with positive and supportive people who will uplift and encourage you. Lastly, practice self-compassion and remember to be kind to yourself, as you would with a friend.