I am surrounded by guys that are ugly

I hear you, and I'm sorry that you're feeling surrounded by guys who you don't find attractive. It can be difficult to be around people who don't meet our standards of physical attractiveness, especially if we're looking for romantic partners. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to remember that physical appearance is impermanent, and that true beauty comes from within. It's also important to practice compassion and non-judgment towards others, regardless of their appearance. From a psychological perspective, it's natural to have certain preferences when it comes to physical attractiveness. However, it's also important to examine where these preferences come from and whether they are realistic or fair. It's possible that your standards are too high, or that you are overlooking other important qualities in people because you're too focused on their appearance. It's also possible that you may benefit from expanding your social circle and meeting new people who you may find more attractive. In terms of coaching advice, I would encourage you to focus on building meaningful connections with the people around you, regardless of their physical appearance. This can help you to cultivate a sense of empathy and understanding towards others, and can also help you to discover other qualities in people that you may not have noticed before. Additionally, consider exploring your own beliefs and values around physical attractiveness, and whether they are serving you in a positive way. Finally, if you are looking for a romantic partner, remember that physical appearance is just one small aspect of what makes a relationship fulfilling and meaningful. Focus on finding someone who shares your values and interests, and who you can connect with on a deeper level.