a colleague never wish to pay for coffee money, what should I do to stop treat him the coffee

Dear User, Thank you for reaching out to me for guidance. It can be frustrating and disappointing when a colleague never wants to pay for coffee money, especially when it feels like you are being taken advantage of. It's important to acknowledge and validate your feelings in this situation. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to practice compassion and non-attachment. It's understandable to feel upset, but it's also important to let go of any attachment to the outcome or how your colleague behaves. We cannot control the actions of others, but we can control our own reactions and responses. From a psychological perspective, it's important to set boundaries and communicate assertively. It's okay to say no and assert your own needs and boundaries. You can communicate calmly and respectfully with your colleague, letting them know how you feel and what you need from them. You can also suggest alternative solutions, such as taking turns paying for coffee or bringing your own coffee from home. As a coach, I would advise you to reflect on your own values and priorities. Is this issue worth causing conflict or tension in your workplace? Is it more important to maintain a good relationship with your colleague or to stand up for yourself? Once you have a clear understanding of your own values and priorities, you can make an informed decision on how to proceed. In summary, it's important to practice compassion and non-attachment while also setting boundaries and communicating assertively. Reflect on your own values and priorities before taking action.