When I get bullied, why do others stand with the bully and tell me I'm the emotional one?

Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you have been bullied and that others have joined in on the bullying. It is important to remember that it is not your fault and that you do not deserve to be treated poorly. It can be difficult to understand why others would stand with the bully, but it is often because they are afraid of being targeted themselves or they do not want to be seen as going against the group. This does not excuse their behavior, but it can help to understand where they are coming from. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to practice compassion towards yourself and others. This means recognizing that everyone is suffering in their own way and that the bully may be acting out of their own pain and insecurity. However, this does not mean that you should tolerate their behavior or excuse it. It is important to set boundaries and stand up for yourself in a compassionate way, without resorting to anger or violence. From a psychological perspective, it can be helpful to seek support from a trusted friend, family member, or therapist. Talking about your experiences can help you process your emotions and gain perspective on the situation. It can also be helpful to practice assertiveness and communication skills, so that you can stand up for yourself in a calm and confident way. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest that you focus on building your own self-confidence and self-worth. This can involve practicing self-care, setting goals for yourself, and engaging in activities that make you feel good about yourself. It can also involve practicing assertiveness skills and developing a support network of friends and family who will stand by you. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and that you have the power to create a positive and fulfilling life for yourself.