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Should i text him that "I got a bit worried" when he's left me on read for days?

Love6/10/2023

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Dear User, It sounds like you are feeling a bit anxious about the lack of response from the person you texted. I can understand why you might be feeling worried and uncertain about the situation. It's common to feel this way when we don't receive a response from someone we care about. It's important to remember that your feelings are valid and that it's okay to feel this way. From a Buddhist perspective, it's essential to remember that everything is impermanent, including our relationships. We must accept that things may not always go the way we want them to, and sometimes we have to let go of our expectations. It's essential to focus on the present moment and not get too attached to the outcome. From a psychological perspective, communication is crucial in any relationship. It's important to express how you feel without blaming or attacking the other person. It's also essential to set boundaries for yourself and communicate them clearly. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure, it's okay to express that to the other person. As for specific coaching advice, I would recommend taking a step back and focusing on your own well-being. It's important not to obsess over the situation and give yourself space to process your feelings. You could try engaging in activities that make you feel good, such as spending time with loved ones or doing something creative. When you feel more grounded, you can consider reaching out to the person again and expressing your concerns in a calm and respectful manner. Remember that you deserve love and respect, and it's okay to set boundaries for yourself. Take care of yourself first, and everything else will fall into place.