So this person has been talking with me for two months, we haven't met because he was on vacation. He seemed to be interested, he sent a lot of selfies to me and talked to me a lot. He also sent me nudes. But now he is back in my city and he told me that. I was about to ask him when he wants to meet, then he ghosted me

Dear User, I can understand how disheartening and confusing it must be to experience such behavior from someone you have been talking to for two months. It seemed like he was genuinely interested, especially with the frequent communication and sharing of personal photos. It is disappointing to have him suddenly disappear without any explanation, especially when you were just about to discuss meeting up now that he is back in your city. Please know that your feelings of hurt and confusion are valid, and it is important to take care of yourself during this time. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to remember that attachment and expectations can often lead to suffering. While it is natural to desire connection and companionship, it is crucial to detach ourselves from specific outcomes and expectations in relationships. This does not mean suppressing your emotions, but rather acknowledging them and finding a sense of inner peace and contentment independent of external circumstances. From a psychological perspective, it is essential to recognize that ghosting behavior is a reflection of the other person's actions and choices, rather than a reflection of your worth or value. Ghosting says more about them than it does about you. It is crucial to avoid blaming yourself or questioning your own actions. Instead, focus on your own self-worth and remind yourself of all the positive qualities you bring to any relationship. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest taking some time to process your emotions and practice self-care. Engage in activities that bring you joy and help you feel grounded. Surround yourself with supportive friends and loved ones who can provide comfort and understanding. It may also be helpful to reflect on what you have learned from this experience and use it as an opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection. Remember, you deserve someone who values and respects you. It is important not to settle for less than you deserve. Take this experience as a lesson in understanding your own worth and continue to cultivate self-love and self-compassion. Trust that the right person will come along at the right time, and until then, focus on nurturing your own well-being.