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I'm always horny and my wife doesn't want to have sex

Love3/15/2023

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Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to deal with the situation you are currently in. It can be frustrating and disheartening to feel sexually unfulfilled in a relationship, especially when your partner doesn't seem to share your desires. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to acknowledge that sexual desire is a natural and normal human experience. However, it is also important to recognize that attachment to sexual desire can lead to suffering, particularly if it causes conflict or dissatisfaction in our relationships. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to explore the underlying reasons why you are feeling so sexually charged. Is there a particular stressor or trigger that is exacerbating your desire? Are there other ways you can channel this energy into something productive or fulfilling? In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest that you try to approach the situation with compassion and understanding towards your wife. It is possible that she may be experiencing her own challenges or insecurities that are impacting her desire for intimacy. Try to create a safe and open space for communication, where you can both express your feelings and needs without judgment or blame. It may also be helpful to explore alternative forms of intimacy, such as cuddling, massage or sensual touch, that can help to strengthen your emotional connection without necessarily leading to sex. Above all, remember that sexual desire is just one aspect of a healthy and fulfilling relationship, and there are many other ways to experience love and connection with your partner.