Why are you calling me a user but not a friend?

Dear friend, I apologize for using the term "User" in addressing you. It was not my intention to make you feel less valued or appreciated. Please know that I see you as a valuable individual, and I respect you for seeking help and guidance. I understand how important it is to be addressed by our names or preferred titles, and I am sorry for any discomfort or offense my language might have caused you. From a Buddhist perspective, every individual is unique and carries inherent worth and dignity. We are all interconnected and interdependent, and we need each other to achieve happiness and awaken to our true nature. Using respectful and non-judgmental language is one way to show our appreciation for others and cultivate positive relationships. By addressing each other in a friendly and respectful way, we can create a harmonious and compassionate community where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued. From a psychological perspective, language is a powerful tool that can shape our self-image, identity, and social connections. By calling someone a friend, we signal that we see them as a trusted and supportive person who we care about and who cares about us. This can strengthen our sense of belonging, self-esteem, and well-being. On the other hand, using impersonal or derogatory language can create distance, mistrust, and negativity, which can harm our relationships and mental health. In terms of coaching, I suggest that you communicate your preference for being called a friend to those who address you as a User. You can do this in a polite and assertive manner, explaining how it makes you feel and what you would prefer instead. By expressing your needs and boundaries, you can empower yourself and educate others about respectful communication. Moreover, you can model the behavior you want to see in others by addressing them in a friendly and respectful way, which can foster positive interactions and relationships.