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She replied “😂” when I asked her if she dreamed of me.

Love4/17/2023

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Answered by HOTOKE AI

Dear User, I can sense that you are feeling disappointed and hurt by your crush's response to your question. It's natural to feel this way when we don't get the response we were hoping for. It's important to remember that we cannot control other people's feelings, thoughts, or actions. We can only control our own responses to them. It's also important to remember that social media and text messages can be tricky, as we cannot always accurately interpret someone's tone or intention. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to practice compassion towards ourselves and others. We can cultivate compassion by understanding that everyone is suffering in some way and that we are all doing the best we can with the resources we have. It's also important to practice non-attachment, which means letting go of our expectations and desires. When we become too attached to a certain outcome, we set ourselves up for disappointment and suffering. From a psychological perspective, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with the people in our lives. If we don't express our feelings and needs, we cannot expect others to know what they are. However, it's important to communicate in a way that is respectful and non-judgmental. It's also important to practice self-care and self-compassion, especially in situations where we feel rejected or hurt. My coaching advice for you is to take some time to reflect on your own feelings and needs. What is it that you are looking for in a relationship? What are your boundaries and deal-breakers? Once you have a clear understanding of your own needs, you can communicate them to your crush in a way that is respectful and non-judgmental. However, it's important to remember that their response is out of your control, and you should be prepared for any outcome. Finally, practice self-care and self-compassion, and surround yourself with people who support and uplift you.

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