dinner and drinks with a group of strangers just to meet people and talk about live at the end a man approach me and kiss me then we waited a bit for his ride to go and i did not say anything just a no i did not want to do more and he kiss me again and said goodbye the next day I said I was sorry but was not interested during the night I was not interested just chatting but I was uncomfortable from the start also from previous gatherings he did the same thing to other women and some were really annoyed as well and do not want to come if he is there the organiser told me I like to go with the flow but after and before I have zero interest in him did I do wrong

It sounds like you had an experience that left you feeling uncomfortable and perhaps a bit conflicted about how you handled the situation. It's important to acknowledge and honor your feelings, as they are valid. Being in a social setting with strangers can be challenging, especially when someone crosses a boundary you were not prepared for. Your discomfort is understandable, and it's okay to have mixed emotions about how things unfolded. From a Buddhist perspective, it's essential to practice mindfulness and compassion towards yourself. This situation invites you to reflect on your boundaries and how you can maintain them with kindness and clarity. It's also an opportunity to practice compassion towards others by understanding that everyone has their own intentions and actions. However, this does not mean tolerating behavior that makes you uncomfortable. It's about finding a balance between understanding and self-respect. Psychologically, it’s crucial to recognize the importance of consent and personal boundaries. Feeling uneasy when someone invades your personal space is a natural response. It’s important to understand that you are not responsible for someone else's actions, especially if they disregard your comfort. Social dynamics can often make it difficult to assert boundaries, but it's important to prioritize your own well-being over social niceties. In terms of coaching advice, consider reflecting on what boundaries are important for you in social interactions and how you might assert them in a way that feels authentic and respectful to yourself. Practice saying "no" in a way that feels comfortable and firm, whether it’s verbally or through body language. You might also want to communicate with the organizer about your boundaries and suggest creating an environment where everyone feels safe and respected. Remember, it's okay to choose not to attend events where you might feel uncomfortable.