why my work leader lie to me

I am sorry to hear that your work leader has lied to you. It can be very difficult to deal with when someone we trust and look up to breaks that trust. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to remember that everyone is capable of making mistakes and that we should try to approach situations with compassion and understanding. Perhaps your work leader was going through a difficult time or was under pressure from higher-ups. It does not excuse their behavior, but it may help to understand that everyone has their own struggles. From a psychological perspective, it is important to address the impact that the lie has had on you. It is natural to feel hurt, angry, or betrayed when someone lies to us. It may be helpful to talk to someone you trust, such as a friend or therapist, about how you are feeling. It is also important to communicate with your work leader about the lie and how it has affected you. This can be a difficult conversation to have, but it may help to clear the air and establish boundaries moving forward. In terms of coaching advice, it may be helpful to focus on self-care and self-compassion. Take time to do things that bring you joy and help you feel grounded. Practice mindfulness or meditation to help manage any difficult emotions that come up. It may also be helpful to set clear boundaries with your work leader moving forward and to communicate openly and honestly about any concerns or issues that arise.