my boyfriend does not respect me by asking for unprotected sex, he said he is just asking and promised he would not do so. but i insist to break up without saying what i want. i wanna talk to him to explain my thought, should i

Dear User, I can understand how difficult this situation must be for you. It's important for you to feel respected and heard in your relationship, especially when it comes to matters of sexual health and safety. It's understandable that you may feel frustrated and upset with your boyfriend for asking for unprotected sex, even if he promised not to act on it. Trust and respect are essential in any relationship, and it's important to establish clear boundaries and communication around what you are and are not comfortable with. From a Buddhist perspective, it's important to approach this situation with compassion and understanding for both yourself and your boyfriend. It can be beneficial to take a step back and reflect on your own feelings and needs, as well as those of your partner. Practicing mindfulness and self-awareness can help you communicate more effectively and make decisions that align with your values and beliefs. From a psychological perspective, it's important to communicate your thoughts and feelings to your boyfriend in a clear and assertive manner. It's okay to express your boundaries and expectations, and to seek support from friends or a therapist if needed. Remember that your feelings and needs are valid, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being in any relationship. In terms of coaching advice, I would suggest having an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your thoughts and feelings regarding unprotected sex. It's important to approach the conversation with a non-judgmental and compassionate attitude, and to listen actively to your partner's perspective as well. If you feel uncomfortable or unsupported in the relationship, it may be helpful to consider taking a break or seeking outside support. Remember to prioritize your own well-being and to communicate your needs clearly and assertively.