I have a relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years. In 6 years time, we argued a lot in the first 3-4 years. We are in stable mood now. We dont really have common topics. I can feel that he is less interest with me so do I. I found out few times that he texted girls and date for sex. He know that I knew it for the first time. But he continue for doing that. Few years later, I finally trusted him because he promised he wont do it again. But I found out again last week when I went back to hometown for 2 months. Im not sure should I leave it and stay or end the relationship. I have financial problem

Dear User, I can imagine that this is a difficult situation for you to be in. It is understandable that you have concerns about the future of your relationship given the history of arguments and lack of common topics. It is also concerning that you have discovered that your boyfriend has been texting and dating other girls for sex. It is normal to feel a lack of interest in someone who is not showing interest in you, and it is important that you take the time to evaluate whether you want to continue this relationship. It is also important to acknowledge that you have financial problems which can add to the stress of the situation. From a Buddhist perspective, it is important to recognize that our actions have consequences. In this case, your boyfriend's actions have caused you to feel hurt and mistrustful. It is also important to recognize that attachment and aversion can cause suffering. It may be helpful to focus on cultivating a sense of detachment from the situation, while still acknowledging and addressing your feelings and concerns. From a psychological perspective, it may be helpful to explore your values and needs in a relationship, and to communicate them with your partner. Additionally, it may be helpful to seek support from a therapist, friend, or family member who can provide a neutral perspective and help you navigate this difficult time. In terms of coaching advice, it may be helpful to take some time to reflect on what you want and need in a relationship. It may be helpful to communicate your concerns and feelings with your boyfriend, and to evaluate whether he is willing and able to meet your needs. It may also be helpful to explore your financial options, such as seeking a job or financial assistance, so that you feel more empowered to make decisions about your relationship. Ultimately, the decision to stay or end the relationship is up to you, and it is important to prioritize your own well-being and happiness. Remember that you deserve to be in a relationship where you feel valued, respected, and loved.