Family
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
為什麼爸爸有自殘傾向？
Dear User, I understand that you are concerned about your father's tendency to self-harm. It can be very difficult and distressing to witness a loved one engage in such behaviors. From a Buddhist pers...
May 15, 2023
My son does not like his father and does not want to see him
Dear User, I can sense that you are feeling worried and concerned about your son's relationship with his father. It must be tough to see your child not wanting to spend time with their parent. First ...
May 15, 2023
My mom is abusive, what should i do?
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are experiencing abuse from your mother. It takes a lot of courage to reach out for help and support, and I want you to know that you are not alone. Abuse can ha...
May 15, 2023
My daughter seems to be very ignorant and yet upset of herself, how do I advise her to be more optimistic?
Dear parent, I can understand how concerning it must be for you to see your daughter feeling upset about herself. It is natural to want to help her be more optimistic, but it's important to approach t...
May 15, 2023
my dad is annoying how should i deal with him
Dear User, thank you for coming to me with this question. It can be challenging to deal with a parent who may sometimes annoy us. It's understandable that you may feel frustrated, irritated, or angry ...
May 14, 2023
我覺我應該要打電話給媽媽，但不知道為什麼又不想打
Dear User, I can sense that you are feeling conflicted about the idea of calling your mother. It can be difficult to maintain relationships with our loved ones, and sometimes we may not feel ready or...
May 14, 2023
我很想帶年老的爸爸一起去旅行，但每次他都說不去，我好希望在他行得走得的時候能創造美好的回憶，但他好像不明白，怎麼辦?
I understand that you really want to travel with your elderly father, but he keeps refusing to go. It can be frustrating when we have a vision for something we want to do with someone we love, but the...
May 14, 2023
How can I help my disability brother
Dear User, It is admirable that you want to support your brother who has a disability. It can be challenging to see your loved one struggle with daily activities, and you may feel overwhelmed at time...
May 14, 2023
How to deal with fight between wife and my parents?
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to navigate conflicts between your wife and parents. It can be particularly challenging when you love and care for both parties involved. From a Buddhis...
May 13, 2023
Who should wash the dishes, me or my husband
Dear User, I can understand that you are facing a dilemma about who should wash the dishes, you or your husband. It's a common problem that many couples face in their daily lives. You may feel that yo...
May 13, 2023
i am not good for family.
Dear User, I can understand how you may be feeling about not being good for your family. It can be a challenging feeling to have and can lead to many negative thoughts and emotions. It's important to...
May 13, 2023
i am not good for family.
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling like you are not good for your family. It takes a lot of courage to admit such feelings and it shows that you care about your family and their well-b...
May 13, 2023
i hate my mother
Dear User, Thank you for sharing your feelings with me. I can imagine that it takes a lot of courage to express such strong emotions about a parent. It's okay to feel the way you do, and I want you t...
May 12, 2023
兒子揀飲擇食, 很煩惱
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling frustrated and worried about your son's picky eating habits. It can be challenging to deal with a child who is selective about what they eat, especially w...
May 12, 2023
My wants to get rid of me
I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time with someone wanting to get rid of you. It can be very painful to feel rejected and unwanted, and it is understandable that you are strug...
May 11, 2023
My sister is very depressed. She blames me of creating troubles and she has nothing to do with my problems
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that your sister is struggling with depression and that she is blaming you for the problems in her life. It can be incredibly difficult to witness someone you care abou...
May 11, 2023
About my son’s wish to have his hair dyed and permed which is against school rules, your suggestion about talking about the importance of school rules...
Dear Parent, I understand that you are in a difficult situation with your son's desire to have his hair dyed and permed, which goes against school rules. It's natural for parents to have concerns abo...
May 11, 2023
My son wants to have his hair dyed and permed which is beyond school rules. What should I do?
Dear parent, I can understand your concern about your son wanting to dye and perm his hair, especially if it goes against school rules. It's natural to want to ensure that your child follows the rules...
May 11, 2023
i have a dad who has very difficult personality, is it ok for me not to keep contact with him to protect myself from being hurt emotionally?
Dear User, I can understand how challenging it must be for you to have a difficult relationship with your dad. It is natural to want to protect ourselves from emotional pain, especially if we have ex...
May 10, 2023
I cannot feel loved by my parents
I hear you, and I understand that it can be really difficult to not feel loved by your parents. It is natural to want to feel loved and accepted by those closest to us, especially our parents. It can ...
May 10, 2023