Love
Everyone's worries and HOTOKE AI's answers
I feel I need to break up with someone I love because we are incompatible.
Dear User, I understand that you are facing a difficult decision - feeling the need to break up with someone you love because of incompatibility. It can be incredibly challenging to come to terms wit...
Dec 23, 2023
我们都羡慕双向奔赴的爱情，彼此相互吸引。然而现实中更多的是单恋，一方深爱另一方而不能自拔。一人无情，一人深情。有情人自被无情人伤。在当下这个社会。有个自己深爱的人本就不容易，然而他/她并不那么爱你。我的问题时，在这一段关系中，如何修炼爱她/他依旧，但是自己依然能够过好自己的生活，减少自我的内耗？或者...
I understand and empathize with the situation you are facing in your one-sided love. It can be incredibly difficult and painful to deeply love someone who does not reciprocate those feelings. It is na...
Dec 22, 2023
How can I find a girlfriend?
Dear User, I understand that finding a girlfriend can be a desire that brings both excitement and frustration. It is natural to long for companionship and connection with someone who shares your inte...
Dec 20, 2023
I want to get married, but my boyfriend does not have lots of money.
Dear User, I understand that you desire to get married, and it can be disheartening when your partner doesn't have a substantial amount of money. It's natural to have concerns about financial stabili...
Dec 19, 2023
如果同时爱上了10个女人，应该怎么办
Dear User, I understand that you are facing a challenging situation, as you find yourself simultaneously attracted to 10 different women. It is not uncommon to feel overwhelmed or confused when emoti...
Dec 18, 2023
雖已分手，但我對前男友仍然有執念和依戀，期望對方會回來跟我復合，雖已知不可能，亦已經跟他斷絕聯絡，但他有時找我要回之前的東西我會有悲傷的感覺，因為理想與現實落差太大，我亦因求不得而生嗔恨心，覺得他怎能若無其事地過好日子？難道他不知道他多傷我心嗎女？
I understand and empathize with the feelings you are experiencing towards your ex-boyfriend. It is natural to have lingering attachment and longing for someone we were once close to. It can be challen...
Dec 15, 2023
我不喜欢我女朋友现在的工作，可是他很喜欢，我希望她离职，可是她不要，我就觉得她是不够爱我才不愿意离职，和她爱工作多过我，请问我的想法有问题吗
Dear User, I understand that you are currently not happy with your girlfriend's job, despite her enjoying it. You feel that she should quit because you believe that if she truly loved you, she would ...
Dec 14, 2023
everyone is married but i am not, i feel singled out
Dear User, I understand that it can be difficult and disheartening to feel like everyone around you is married while you are still single. It's natural to compare ourselves to others and wonder why w...
Dec 12, 2023
我跟女朋友在一起5年了，可是我的女朋友的上司最近在追求她，弄到她对我们的感情动摇，他觉得那个上司能给到她想要的生活，可是过后她发现她只是想要那个生活，不是喜欢那个上司，她也跟上司讲清楚了拒绝了他，可是我现在很痛苦的是因为我的女友每天会跟上司独处，弄到我很没有安全感，虽然我的女友答应我不会跟他发生什么...
Dear User, I can understand how difficult and painful this situation must be for you. It can be challenging when external influences start to impact a long-term relationship. It's natural to feel ins...
Dec 12, 2023
我跟女朋友在一起5年了，可是我的女朋友的上司最近在追求她，弄到她对我们的感情动摇，他觉得那个上司能给到她想要的生活，可是过后她发现她只是想要那个生活，不是喜欢那个上司，她也跟上司讲清楚了拒绝了他，可是我现在很痛苦的是因为我的女友每天会跟上司独处，弄到我很没有安全感，我该怎么办
Dear User, I can understand how difficult and painful this situation must be for you. It is natural to feel insecure and worried when someone we love spends time alone with someone else, especially w...
Dec 12, 2023
如果我很爱的女友让我痛苦我该怎么办？
I understand that you are facing a difficult situation with your girlfriend, and it is causing you a lot of pain. It can be challenging when someone we love becomes a source of suffering for us. From ...
Dec 12, 2023
Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Dear User, I understand that you are currently facing a difficult decision about whether to break up with your boyfriend. It can be incredibly challenging to navigate through such situations, as the...
Dec 8, 2023
I fall in love with someone who has a boyfriend
Dear User, It seems that you are experiencing a challenging situation where you have developed feelings for someone who is already in a committed relationship. Relationships and emotions can be compl...
Dec 5, 2023
The girl i like stop talking with me
Dear User, I understand that it can be quite disheartening and confusing when someone we like suddenly stops talking to us. It can leave us feeling rejected, hurt, and questioning what went wrong. Fr...
Dec 5, 2023
I feel so desperate that whenever I wait and hope for a good date with someone, it always waiting in vain
Dear User, I can sense the desperation and disappointment you are feeling when it comes to waiting and hoping for a good date with someone. It can be disheartening when our expectations are not met, e...
Dec 5, 2023
My crush stop replying me
Dear User, I understand that it can be quite disheartening and confusing when someone you have feelings for suddenly stops replying to your messages. It can leave you feeling rejected, anxious, and u...
Dec 4, 2023
How to get happiness with my partner
Dear User, I understand that finding happiness with your partner is something you desire, and it is a common pursuit for many individuals. It is natural to long for a fulfilling and harmonious relati...
Dec 2, 2023
想和老師談戀愛怎麼辦
Dear User, I understand that you are considering developing a romantic relationship with your teacher, and you are seeking guidance on how to proceed. It's natural to feel attracted to someone you ad...
Nov 29, 2023
我好想談戀愛，要怎麼樣脫單
Dear User, I can understand and empathize with your desire to find love and be in a relationship. It is natural to long for companionship, connection, and all the beautiful experiences that come with...
Nov 29, 2023
菩薩畏因，凡夫畏果。 佛菩薩看到因果，我們凡夫只看到對錯。 About Love,how to make it,deep compassion and understanding of the interconnectedness of each other？
Dear User, I understand that you are seeking guidance on how to cultivate deep compassion and understanding in the context of love, with a focus on recognizing the interconnectedness of each other. T...
Nov 27, 2023