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Why can't I let go of my husband's affair?
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling to let go of your husband's affair. It is understandable that this experience has caused you pain and hurt. It is normal to feel a range of emot...
Apr 7, 2023
My wife is not satisfied with my gift, what should I do? I don't want to spend much money.
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling frustrated and unsure of what to do in this situation. It can be disheartening when we put effort into giving a gift to someone we love, only to have it n...
Apr 6, 2023
I use very bad language when angry on boyfriend. I shout and get irritated. Cannot control my anger. It feels like I go too much out of way to say ver...
Dear friend, I hear you. It can be incredibly challenging to control our emotions, especially when we're feeling angry. It's understandable that you feel frustrated and upset with yourself for using h...
Apr 6, 2023
what should i do if i kinda like my teacher who is in her 50s and shares d same gender with me
Dear friend, thank you for reaching out and sharing your feelings with me. It's completely normal to develop feelings for someone, even if it's unexpected or unconventional. It can be especially confu...
Apr 6, 2023
what should i do if i kinda like someone who is in her 50sand shares d same gender with me
Dear friend, I hear you are questioning what to do if you have feelings for someone who is older than you and shares the same gender. It can be challenging and confusing to navigate these feelings, es...
Apr 6, 2023
i am not sure if i like someone
Dear friend, it is perfectly normal to feel unsure about your feelings towards someone. It can be confusing and overwhelming to sort through your emotions, especially when it comes to matters of the h...
Apr 6, 2023
How do I recognize if he is the only one for me even though we come from different background
Dear User, thank you for reaching out for advice. It can be challenging to navigate relationships, especially when coming from different backgrounds. You may feel uncertain and even doubt whether this...
Apr 6, 2023
i don't love anyone because i was hurt in young age, i can't feel safty when i love im common definition, is it fine?
Dear User, it is understandable that you feel apprehensive about loving someone due to past hurt. It takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to open up to another person after experiencing such pain....
Apr 6, 2023
My boyfriend likes to get jealous easily, I feel not trusted and sad. What shall I do?
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be to deal with a jealous partner. It can make you feel like you are not trusted, which can be hurtful and upsetting. It is important to remember that jeal...
Apr 6, 2023
How to get a lover?
Dear User, it sounds like you are seeking guidance on how to find a lover. It is understandable that you may feel a sense of longing for companionship and love. From a Buddhist perspective, it is impo...
Apr 6, 2023
My boyfriend likes to get jealous easily, that makes me sad. What shall I do?
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be when a loved one is struggling with jealousy, and how it can impact you emotionally. It is natural to feel sad when someone you care about is experienc...
Apr 6, 2023
What should I do with a man I like and likes me, but he’s already married and in an open relationship?
Dear User, I understand that this situation can be challenging and confusing for you. It's natural to have feelings for someone and feel drawn to them. However, it's important to consider the ethical ...
Apr 6, 2023
Why i dont have girlfriend
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling frustrated and perhaps even a little discouraged that you don't have a girlfriend. It can be difficult to see others in happy relationships when you are fe...
Apr 6, 2023
What to do when the other person cancelled the date right before it happen.
Dear User, I understand how disappointing it can be when someone cancels a date at the last minute. It can feel like a rejection, and it can be frustrating to have invested time and energy into plann...
Apr 6, 2023
heartbroken
Dear User, I am sorry to hear that you are feeling heartbroken. It is never easy to go through such a painful experience. You may feel like you are stuck in a dark place and unable to find your way o...
Apr 6, 2023
How to give up someone you love but you know that there is no possibility for you to be together
Dear User, I can understand that you are going through a difficult time. It is never easy to let go of someone you love, especially when circumstances prevent you from being together. You may be feel...
Apr 6, 2023
How to peacefully breakup with my girlfriend?
Dear User, I can understand that the decision to break up with your girlfriend might be a difficult one. It takes a lot of courage to make such a decision. It can be challenging to navigate the emotio...
Apr 6, 2023
My crush says we should take a 3-month break. So he stopped talking to me since last week and blocked me. I miss him so much. What should I do
Dear User, I understand how difficult and painful this situation must be for you. It's natural to miss someone you care for deeply, especially when you didn't expect them to cut off contact with you. ...
Apr 6, 2023
I have a crush on my boss. Shall i tell him?
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation. It can be challenging to navigate feelings of attraction, especially when they involve someone in a position of authority, such as yo...
Apr 6, 2023
I have a crush on my boss
Dear User, I hear you. Having a crush on someone can be exciting and thrilling, but it can also be confusing and overwhelming, especially if that person is your boss. It is understandable to feel thi...
Apr 6, 2023