Love
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I fall in love with two people.
Dear User, Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation. Falling in love with two people can be a challenging and overwhelming experience. It is understandable that you may be feeling confus...
Mar 25, 2023
Want to revenge on my husband
Dear User, I hear that you are feeling a strong desire to seek revenge against your husband. This can be a difficult emotion to navigate, and it's important to acknowledge that you are not alone in fe...
Mar 25, 2023
我内心对于美女都很强的欲望,但是我已经结婚了,造成我同时也有很强的负罪感,我该怎么办? 请用中文回答。
我非常理解你的困扰。首先,我们要认识到欲望是人类的基本情感之一,而且每个人都有自己的欲望。然而,当我们的欲望与我们的价值观和行为不一致时,就会产生内心的冲突和痛苦。你现在在感受到这种内心的冲突,既想要追求自己的欲望,又感到对不起你的妻子和家庭,这是很正常的感受。 从佛教的角度来看,欲望是众生的痛苦之源。我们的欲望和贪念让我们在追求短暂的快乐时迷失了自己的本性,因此产生了痛苦和内心的冲突。佛教教导...
Mar 25, 2023
I’m in love with someone but hesitated to tell her.
Dear User, I understand how you feel. Being in love with someone can be both exciting and scary at the same time, especially when it comes to confessing your feelings. It takes a lot of courage to do...
Mar 25, 2023
I can’t accept cheating in marriage, is it still possible to step into marriage?
Dear User, I understand that you have concerns about stepping into marriage because you cannot accept cheating. It is important to acknowledge the pain and hurt that infidelity can cause in a relatio...
Mar 25, 2023
my partner asked me to let him know when I'm ready to have a discussion again once I'm ready after our recent breakup, when do I know when I'm ready? ...
Dear User, I understand that going through a breakup can be a challenging and difficult experience. It is completely normal to feel a range of emotions such as sadness, anger, and confusion during th...
Mar 24, 2023
Feeling unheard in a relationship
Dear User, I understand how you feel. Feeling unheard in a relationship can be frustrating and disheartening. It's natural to want to be heard and understood by the person you care about. It's importa...
Mar 24, 2023
My boyfriend is gay
Dear User, I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. It can be incredibly confusing and painful to discover that your partner is gay. It's okay to feel a range of emotions, including shock, disbelief...
Mar 24, 2023
Is sex with friend good?
Dear User, thank you for reaching out with your question. It is natural to have questions about relationships, sex, and intimacy. You are not alone in your search for answers. It takes courage to ask ...
Mar 24, 2023
how to attract someone
It sounds like you are interested in learning how to attract someone into your life. This is a common desire for many people, and it can be a challenging journey to navigate. Firstly, it's essential t...
Mar 24, 2023
Why can't I find a person I love?
Dear User, I can understand how you may be feeling lonely and frustrated with the difficulty of finding a person you love. It can be disheartening to see others around you in happy relationships while...
Mar 24, 2023
My girlfriend is usually very attentive. But when I don’t feel well, I can get more needy. She then becomes busy or not responsive. Is she avoiding me...
Dear User, I understand how difficult it can be when the person we love seems distant or unresponsive, particularly when we are feeling vulnerable. It's natural to have questions and concerns when ou...
Mar 24, 2023
My girlfriend doesn’t care about me.
Dear User, I can understand how difficult it must be for you to feel as though your girlfriend doesn't care about you. It's a tough situation to be in, and it can be painful to feel neglected or unlo...
Mar 24, 2023
I cannot stop thinking about a rejection from a friend
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are struggling with thoughts of rejection from a friend. It can be incredibly painful to experience rejection, especially from someone we care about. Please kn...
Mar 24, 2023
How to chase the one I love?
Dear friend, I can sense that you are feeling a strong desire to pursue someone you love. It's completely understandable to want to be close to someone who holds a special place in your heart. This fe...
Mar 24, 2023
Someone ghost me
I understand how painful it can be when someone suddenly disappears from our lives without any explanation. It can leave you feeling confused, hurt, and rejected. It's important to give yourself permi...
Mar 24, 2023
How do I cope with a breakup that just happened and I'm devastated
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are going through this difficult time. Breakups can be incredibly painful, and it's natural to feel devastated. It's important to allow yourself to feel your e...
Mar 24, 2023
I did not realise that I love him until he is about to leave. I tried to express my feelings but he turned me down
Dear friend, I am sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult time right now. It can be very painful to realize that you have feelings for someone when it seems too late. It is natural to fe...
Mar 24, 2023
I did not realise that I love him until he is about to leave
Dear User, it sounds like you are going through a difficult and emotional time. It can be overwhelming to realize your feelings for someone when it seems like it may be too late to act on them. Howeve...
Mar 24, 2023
My ex had moved to another city and is ignoring me
Dear User, I understand that it is difficult to feel ignored by an ex who has moved to another city. It can bring up feelings of rejection, abandonment, and loss. It is natural to want to reach out an...
Mar 24, 2023