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How to parent child with negative thoughts
Dear User, I understand that parenting a child with negative thoughts can be challenging and overwhelming at times. It can be heartbreaking to see your child struggling with negative thoughts and emo...
Sep 18, 2023
how to learn to be less shy when talking to others?
Dear User, I understand that being shy when talking to others can be challenging and may cause you to feel uncomfortable and anxious. It takes courage to acknowledge this and seek ways to overcome it...
Sep 16, 2023
Why I always try to set someone up with someone when I get drunk
Dear User, I understand that you're experiencing a recurring pattern of trying to set someone up with someone else when you're under the influence of alcohol. It seems like you're seeking an explana...
Sep 14, 2023
Why my friend always try to hook someone up when she gets drunk
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling bothered by your friend's behavior of trying to hook someone up when she gets drunk. It can be frustrating to witness someone engaging in actions that may...
Sep 14, 2023
why my friend always try to set up people when she gets drunk
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling confused and frustrated by your friend's behavior when she gets drunk. It can be challenging to witness someone constantly trying to set up people when th...
Sep 14, 2023
My friend asked me to do some work for him but refused to pay me for the work and began ghosting me. How do I get over it?
I understand how frustrating and hurtful it can be when someone takes advantage of your kindness and refuses to acknowledge your efforts. It can be especially disheartening when this person is a frien...
Sep 14, 2023
hi, my friends grandpa passed away recently and we were talking, we were chatting regularly when i accidentally said a very insensitive joke, causing ...
Dear User, I understand that you are feeling very remorseful and guilty about making an insensitive joke to your friend, especially during a time of grief for her due to her grandpa's recent passing....
Sep 12, 2023
I am gay and I love to have sex with my dad.
I hear that you are expressing a deep personal struggle, and it takes courage to share such feelings. As a Buddhist, I believe in the importance of compassion and understanding towards oneself and oth...
Sep 12, 2023
HOW DO I ENCOURAGE SOMEONE WHO HAS LOW SELF ESTEEM AND LOW CONFIDENCE
I understand that you are seeking guidance on how to encourage someone who is experiencing low self-esteem and confidence. It can be challenging to witness someone we care about struggling with these ...
Sep 12, 2023
WHAT DO I DO WITH FRIENDS WHO TRY TO CONDITION ME TO BECOME SOMETHING IM NOT?
Dear User, I can sense your frustration and confusion regarding your friends who are trying to condition you to become someone you're not. It can be challenging and disheartening when those close to ...
Sep 12, 2023
How to deal with annoying people?
Dear User, I understand that dealing with annoying people can be quite challenging and uncomfortable. It is natural to feel frustrated or irritated when we encounter individuals who push our buttons ...
Sep 11, 2023
I am hurt that my best friend did not reply nor talk to me when i tried so many time. should i give up?
I understand how hurtful it can be when someone we consider our best friend doesn't respond or communicate with us, despite our efforts to reach out. It can leave us feeling rejected, confused, and qu...
Sep 11, 2023
how to make people care about each other
Dear User, I understand your desire for people to care about each other. It can be disheartening to witness a lack of empathy and compassion in the world. From a Buddhist perspective, the foundation ...
Sep 8, 2023
my friend always bombards me with her concerns ; it seems to me that she is very emotionally reliant on me and closed ones; I feel overwhelmed at time...
Dear User, I can understand how overwhelming it must feel to have a friend who constantly bombards you with their concerns. It's natural to want to be there for our loved ones, but when it becomes to...
Sep 8, 2023
dear Buddha, is it wrong to expect something form your boyfriend ?
Dear friend, I understand that you are questioning whether it is wrong to have expectations of your boyfriend. It is natural for us as humans to have expectations, as they can arise from our desires,...
Sep 8, 2023
如何應對一個非常自大自以為是的人
I understand that dealing with someone who is extremely arrogant and self-righteous can be a challenging and frustrating experience. It can be difficult to find common ground or have meaningful conver...
Sep 4, 2023
I always need someone to cling onto
Dear User, I hear you and understand that you feel the need to have someone to cling onto. It is natural for humans to seek connection and support from others, as it brings comfort and a sense of sec...
Sep 2, 2023
How to i interconnect with others is ignorance? How to deal with others lack of awareness? I don't feel that going in life in a drugged mind state wil...
Dear User, I understand that you are struggling with how to connect with others and how to deal with their lack of awareness. It can be frustrating and disheartening when we feel like we are the only...
Sep 1, 2023
How to be compassionate when others aren't with you? I feel im responsible for others is stupidity, i must drive carefully to avoid somebody with head...
Dear User, I understand your concern about feeling responsible for the well-being of others while they may not reciprocate with the same level of compassion. It can be challenging when we witness oth...
Sep 1, 2023
How to be compassionate when others aren't with you? I feel im responsible for others is stupidity, i must drive carefully to avoid somebody with head...
Dear User, I understand your concern about feeling responsible for others' actions and well-being, even when they may not show the same level of compassion or awareness as you. It can be frustrating ...
Sep 1, 2023